On the anger side of things, I have determined that parts of me are angry at me or my TrueSelf for not examining the issue and for looking at the problem all wrong, and denying to myself that I was doing that. I have my pitfalls. The anger smoothed out a bit once I apologized for not listening to that part. It's funny how this stuff works. Listening to the anger gave me a clue that I was looking at things the wrong way.
I'm still waiting for the grief parts. Surely, it's got to be there. I figure it will show up sometime. There's no rushing things.