There's an old joke that states that in any given relationship, one of the people in it is the crazier party. If you're in a relationship and you can't figure out which of you is the crazier party, then it's you. I think I've just discovered that a relationship is just not going to work for me if I am the crazier party. Then again, maybe it's a man-woman thing: it just doesn't work when the guy is crazier. Maybe it was just an individual and mutual thing between her and I: neither of us like it when the man is the crazier party. Maybe it doesn't matter. Anyway you slice it, it still hurts.