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The World Line of the Horizon Star

Some would say I was a lost man in a lost world

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Sindbad Captain Exuberant

All those signs, I knew what they meant...

Sometimes I wonder about the sexes and how they interact. Us guys, we can be pretty oblivious, sometimes, and sometimes it does seem that we are focused deeply upon just one thing. Of course this exasperates women too, sometimes, unless they happen to be deeply interested in "that one thing" at the moment themselves. All of that is quite understandable. I just wonder how often it is that women stop to consider that most guys can be brought to appreciate the subtler and richer nuances inherent in straight, intimate relations...and some of us have been there for quite some time now.

Make no mistake, as a red-blooded straight male I do take appropriate and very appreciative notice when I see a picture of breasts, or a woman's vagina peeking coyly out from under the hemline of a flirtatiously lifted skirt, or when I am told that a woman is currently padding about in her living room au naturel and that her boobs are getting cool in the evening breeze. Nevertheless, there are plenty of additional subtle curiosities which run through (at least some) men's minds when contemplating things like this, in addition to being aware of their own anatomical rigidity. Not all of the blood goes to "the little head" when we are aroused. Some of us ponder additional questions when thinking about a woman even in an erotic context. What expression is on your face right now? Are your pupils large or are your eyes closed? What happens to your expression when you're "about to pop"? What does your throat taste like this evening? How about your lips, earlobes? What would your heart sound like if I laid my ear between those chilly humps and listened? What scent is in your hair? Do you know that I can close my eyes and feel the contours of your face between my palms? Do you know that when I hear your voice I can feel your breath on my skin?

How many women are aware what goes through guys' brains, really? I realize that most of us aren't really good at telling, but it makes me wonder. Just sayin'.

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If those sorts of questions are running through your mind if a woman says such things to you, you should ask/tell her.

I'm getting ready to go to Reconciliation which is only from 4-5:15p.m., or I'd elaborate.

Edited at 2008-07-19 09:52 pm (UTC)

Going to go have a cool shower myself, or I'd elaborate.

Since you're an ex Catholic I'm suprised that my talk of going to Reconciliation would make you need a "cool" shower.
Miss The Holy Water?

God put a smile upon my face...yeah

Now, when you work it out,
I'm worse than you,
Yeah, when you work it out,
I want it too,
Now, when you work out where to draw the line,
Your guess is as good as mine...

I'm sure that priest will need a shower too, after hearing your confession.

Edited at 2008-07-19 10:50 pm (UTC)

Like you know what I confessed! But thanks for the compliment on my voice.

I need to go back to Reconciliation again next Saturday, which will be a toughy seeing as I work till 4pm, and Reconciliation is from 4-5:15.

Alrighty. I gave my input. Ask her/tell her these things. That's all I have.

Edited at 2008-07-20 12:36 am (UTC)

True, I don't know what you have said, but knowing you, I can bet that it wasn't boring. Also, I'm sure that your voice would tempt many a man's vows, even if you just read the phone book to him.

That's one of the most fascinating and thought provoking posts I've ever read.

I agree with this completely.

How many women are aware what goes through guys' brains, really? I realize that most of us aren't really good at telling, but it makes me wonder. Just sayin'.

I'm not sure how we could be expected to know if you don't tell us.

I concede the point. The thing is, some of us do say, even if it is occasionally after a bit of thought. Heh.

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I would say that most guys come to appreciate the fact that relationships are much more than an opportunity for frequent sex through inspiration or experience, through the give-and-take of interaction or through introspection and reflection. Everybody's different. Note I'm not suggesting that all of us are worth a woman's time. Heh heh. My point was though, that sometimes women underestimate guys and deal with us as if they believe that "we understand only one thing."

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Re: not all of us are worth a man's time either

I think you're onto something. Sometimes I think it is more comfortable, in the short term, to firmly embrace error than to admit not knowing.

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